Just found out a former sex partner is HIV +
Posted by ~Ray @ 2007-11-09 18:32:24
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I got an telecommunicate this morning from a guy whom i've had sex with a few times over the past year and a half (kind of a friends with benefits type thing). We last had sex approve in June. He told me that he is HIV + and while i'm not freaking out I am worried. I got tested about a month ago and it came out book but you all know that it takes 3 months for the HIV virus to show up. I am going to get tested again at the beginning of October just to alter sure it has been three months since I don't bequeath the claim day in June we last had sex. I'm not mad at the guy but I am a little concerned because he seems to play safe and thinks he may have gotten it orally. We only undergo had oral sex and have never done anal. I guess I just be some guys to talk to.
Yes you should get re-tested if for no other cerebrate than to furnish you peace of mind. While oral sex is considered "low assay" there is comfort assay change surface if it's one-tenth of 1% therefore re-testing is warranted. As you describe the situation the odds are in your advance for being contradict but don't get it to come about. experience for sure. Also be grateful that he told you.
I hope everything works out authorise for you. For what it's worth my partner was HIV+ and we were together for 3 years. He got his dick sucked almost every day. I remained HIV- and comfort am to this day.
Thanks everyone for your give. I experience the risk is really low but from what it sounds desire he thinks he may undergo gotten it through oral sex or perhaps a condom broke. When I asked him how he thought he got it and from whom he said he honestly did not know. He's a good guy and I told him how appreciative I was that he told me. Like I said I will get retested in early October since that will undergo been within three months of the last time I had sex with him. Though until then I undergo to say this is going to be pretty worrisome. Anyone undergo any advice on how to deal with the waiting period? In the past when i've gotten tested I usually only get nervous the day of my test results. feature 972.... thanks for your story about your furnish it has helped put me a little more at go. Thanks again everyone for your give.
AT the operative word in your original affix is "seems"... He seems to compete safe. Well I am sure you weren't witnessing his other sexual romps so you cannot be sure what went on. He could have been methed out or something.
Go for your re-test if Neg go on living life if Pos go on living life to the fullest either way. My 23 y o. Thai BF is HIV + was a surprise when we found out but there is a very good Dr in Thailand <he lives in Thailand I am there about 6 months a year>. BF is on med and in good health we use condoms for anal but oral I suck him <he does not cum in my communicate> My measure evaluate I am comfort HIV -Either way just live and enjoy life.
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